Dress Code Double Standard

A Wakefield senior wearing a shirt displaying young girls in revealing clothing.
We live in a society that oversexualizes girls and women; we are a pair of breasts and legs, and only serve to be looked at. The media projects an image of beauty that is unattainable but has became the standard. Males look at this standard and believe that’s how every woman should look. We should have large breasts, long legs, small waists, long hair, and the list goes on. This “ideal body” is seen everywhere; it’s in magazines, movies, television, and now in schools.
Recently I have noticed a trend among teenage boys regarding their clothing. They wear shirts that display women in a degrading and demeaning manner. This oversexualization of women cements how society values us. We are here to only be ogled at and an object of pleasure. Who we are and what we think is being put second to our looks.
Our generation is already being exposed to thousands of degrading images of women; now they are being brought to the classroom. Both girls and boys are reprimanded for inappropriate clothing; however it feels as though more girls are sent to the administrator’s office for bra straps or cleavage, than boys are sent for these demeaning shirts.
Why is it we aren’t allowed to show our cleavage, but a boy can wear a shirt that puts a women’s boobs on display? I am not arguing that girls should be allowed to wear clothing as revealing as portrayed in these shirts; however, I believe that it is unjust to punish girls for clothing deemed inappropriate when boys wear distasteful images of women on their chest like there’s nothing wrong with it.
It is frankly disgusting how easy it is for boys to wear these shirts. I’ve talked to my friends and they argue it’s only a shirt, but this is a shirt that’s saying its okay to objectify women. I believe that as a school we should be facilitating learning, not spreading the sexualization and objectification of women.
Everyone needs to help put a stop to these shirts. They are not only creating low self esteem for the girls who see them, but they are creating a culture that believe women are only here to be gawked at. This is a problem all girls face daily, but we as a school can take a step forward and at least end it here, a place meant for learning.
Let your voice be heard; comment below on how these shirts make you feel.
Colton Poythress • Dec 23, 2014 at 10:42 am
I completely agree with this and it should be the same standard for both boys and girls.
Aziza • Dec 23, 2014 at 10:32 am
I absoultly agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I blame it on the media because, it makes it look like these things are ok. Guys shouldn’t even dare to put on such a shirt.What would they think if a girl would wear a shirt like that but, a guy instead.
Samy Achour • Dec 22, 2014 at 10:10 am
I totally agree with this and are against these type of shirts.
Brandon Carpenter • Dec 22, 2014 at 10:08 am
If a picture speaks a thousand words, what does a picture worn on your person say?
Sally LaBonte • Dec 17, 2014 at 12:19 pm
Would you be willing to let me repost this article on http://www.arlingtonteens.com for our audience? this is not just a Wakefield issue, I’m sure you know!
Thanks,
Web Coordinator
http://www.apcyf.org http://www.arlingtonteens.com
adviser • Dec 18, 2014 at 9:14 am
Of Course! We would be honored! We have another opinion piece coming out for a 16 year old male after Winter Break. Stay tuned for more views!
Sally LaBonte • Jan 28, 2015 at 2:24 pm
thanks so much – sorry i got sidetracked. If any other students would like to share on our site PLEASE let me know – i can give them credit on the site!
Sally
Irina Lopez • Dec 9, 2014 at 10:17 am
I’m very thankful for having Erika write about this topic. Those boys’ shirts are simply worth a thousand words. Its very horrible to know that we live in a society where they teach us to not be sexists or show racial discrimination and so on, yet it gets shown to us on a daily basis. Voices like Erika’s can definitely help. It’s about letting our voices be heard and standing up for our rights.
Ramiro Pena • Dec 8, 2014 at 8:38 pm
I think the worst part about those shirts is that they’re just tacky and not stylish at all. That’s the real problem here. Guys, actually think it’s ok to look tacky.
John Fuquene • Dec 8, 2014 at 12:09 pm
awesome shirt!
adviser • Dec 8, 2014 at 5:04 pm
The article is about how un-awesome the shirt is, at least at school. That is what we get for having a picture of the shirt with the article. Hopefully, some people who are ogling the picture read the article too…hopefully. If it changes one person’s opinion, it is worth the inappropriate attention.