Dear Underclassmen,

When I first walked into high school, I thought success was all about grades, sports, popularity, and figuring everything out on my own. Looking back after four years, I realize there was one thing that impacted my experience more than anything else, the relationships I built with my teachers and administrators.

I used to think of teachers as just people who gave out homework and grades. But as time went on, I realized they can actually be some of the most helpful people you’ll meet. If you take the time to talk to them after class, ask them questions, show them you’re trying, and just be respectful, it can make a big difference.

I’m not just talking about teachers, either – it’s the same with counselors, coaches, and even the people in charge of the school. When they know who you are, beyond just your name on a list, they’re way more likely to lend a hand when things get tough. Whether helping me get into a good college, getting me through a tough class, or just being there for me when I was going through a rough time, the relationships I built with them really made all the difference in how well I did.

Skipping class might seem like no big deal, especially when you’re feeling stressed or just don’t want to go. Here’s the thing: it can actually hurt you more than you think. When you miss a class, it’s easy to get behind and lose track of what’s going on. You might miss important assignments or not understand what’s going on in the next lesson, which can lead to bad test scores and lower grades. And before you know it, you’re struggling to catch up. The problem is, people often think that skipping one class won’t make a difference, but the truth is, the little things add up. Consistency is key to doing well in school, and when you start skipping class, it can be hard to get back on track. So, even if it doesn’t seem like a big deal at the time, it’s really important to make an effort to go to class and stay on top of your work.

That being said, I also wish someone had told me that burnout is real. High school can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance sports, grades, extracurriculars, friendships, family expectations, and your mental health all at once. There were times I pushed myself too hard trying to succeed in everything, and I learned that taking care of yourself is just as important as academic achievement. Sometimes you need rest. Sometimes you need to ask for help. Sometimes you need a break from constantly trying to be perfect. Remember, the adults around you want to help you. High school is just a fraction of the successes in life, and how you use your resources now sets you up for the future. 

The key is balance. You can care about your grades while also prioritizing your mental health. You can be dedicated to your sport while still making time for sleep and schoolwork. Time management won’t always come naturally, but learning how to balance your responsibilities is one of the most important lessons high school teaches you.

Most importantly, don’t spend all four years just trying to survive them. Go to the games, take pictures with your friends, join activities, and enjoy the little moments. High school goes by much faster than people say it will. When I was a freshman, senior year seemed so far away. I always told myself I had time, but now , on the last day of school for seniors, I wish so badly I could experience walking into the building for my first time again. 

So, from someone who’s almost finished, show up, build connections, take care of yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Those small choices end up making the biggest difference to your high school experience.

Take Care of Wakefield,

Allie & Gabby

Class of 2026